“And your Lord has decreed that you worship none but Him. And that you be dutiful to your parents. If one of them or both of them attain old age in your life, say not to them a word of disrespect, nor shout at them but address them in terms of honour.” Quran 17:23

Islam values the relationship between parents and children greatly, and both sides follow the teachings of the Quran and the sayings of the Prophet (PBUH). Islam places significant emphasis on the role of parents and the reciprocal obligations and responsibilities that emerge in this connection. Islam has a unique parent-child code of conduct since it is predicated on divine commands. Even if we can never pay back the enormous amount we owe our parents, we nevertheless need to treat them with the greatest respect, decency, and obedience.
It is a reality that our parents have always been there for us, providing us with financial and academic assistance as well as care, education, and guidance. Unfortunately, a lot of people treat their parents badly. Teens, for example, frequently argue with their parents about nothing in particular, and other people would rather ignore them in favour of their friends or the internet. It’s easy to forget that as we get older, our parents are also getting older and can wind up living alone or in a nursing facility as we establish our kids. But it’s crucial to keep in mind that Islam prohibits disregarding parents and that, in all circumstances, Allah requires us to treat them with the highest respect. Being kind and obedient to our parents is very important, especially as they get older, according to both the Quran and Hadith. It is imperative to constantly treat parents with respect and reverence, as disobeying them is considered one of the greatest sins in Islam.
Islam requires Muslims to treat their parents with respect and loyalty. A parent’s disregard is seen as a serious transgression and will not be rewarded by Allah on the Day of Judgment. People who defy their parents would not be allowed to enter Paradise, according to the warnings of Prophet Muhammad (S.A.W). Muslims are supposed to look after their parents and treat them with love, kindness, and respect.
One of the most important forms of devotion in Islam is taking care of one’s parents. A companion who desired to fight in Jihad was once counselled by Prophet Muhammad (S.A.W.) to put his parent’s duty before his own. This demonstrates why providing parents with the best care and respect possible is crucial, even above and beyond their religious obligations. Being respectful to parents entails attending to their needs and duties, making sure they are happy, and treating them properly. Muslims have to always express their gratitude to Allah for the benefits they receive from their parents. Respect for one’s parents is said to lead to one’s children honouring and following in their parents’ footsteps. Because Allah has promised that good acts would be rewarded with good, honoring and being nice to parents is a way to worship Him and get blessings in this life as well as in the hereafter.
Parents are considered gifts from Allah, and one way to express your thanks to them is to treat them with respect. Remembering that our parents have contributed much to our lives and have played a significant role in it is vital. They have shown us how much they love, care, and concern us by always being there. To make sure we have the finest life possible, they have given up time, effort, and resources. It is our responsibility to show our parents love, support, and care as they get older and more reliant on us. To be a decent human being, no matter how old we are, requires us to respect and value our parents. We must ensure their comfort and happiness and show our gratitude for their presence. Never forgetting that our parents gave us the gift of life and shaped who we are now is vital. As a result, we owe it to them to respect them and express our gratitude in whatever manner we can.
Islam highlights the divine duty of respect, loyalty, and care towards parents, underscoring the tremendous relevance of the parent-child bond. Ignoring your parents is seen as a grave sin that will not be atoned for in the hereafter. Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) demonstrated how important it is to appreciate parents by putting their welfare ahead of one’s interests. To thank Allah for giving us parents is to make sure they are happy and comfortable, to recognize the sacrifices they have made, and to nurture the relationship between them throughout their lives. In the end, respecting parents is not just a religious obligation but also a sign of compassion and appreciation for the priceless influence they have had on our lives.
My parents have supported me no matter what throughout my life. Since the day I was born, they have loved me without condition and have supported me consistently, no matter what. Every want and requirement I had was met, and they made sure I would always be taken care of. They have built my life from their love and commitment to my welfare, for which I will always be thankful. All of my accomplishments now are a result of their perseverance and leadership. They have greatly influenced the development of the prosperous person I am today, from childhood to schooling and work. They have given me unselfish guidance at every turn, and my achievements are a result of their sacrifices and steadfast support. Their generosity towards me is immeasurable, and I will always be grateful. I will always adore them more than anything in this world as I value their support and affection. Thank you, Daddy and Mummy.
The writer is a professional social worker. He can be reached at [email protected]

Imran Maqbool Wani