It is man who makes the house and the truth is that happiness and sorrow are part of man`s life. But there are some problems which are very common but have a deep impact on human life like property issues, differences in ideology and opinion, sacrifice of someone. These words seem so simple, soft and easy but they contain poison. And when such problems arise, the family members always try to justify themselves which leads to uproar and quarrels in the house.
Escalation of conflict has a very negative impact on children’s lives, especially when the children are directly targeted, when their freedom is restricted when they tremble to express their views, when they are not even given an opportunity to speak for themselves, when they are targeted even when they tell the truth. And when children are exposed to such brutal violence this can damage them in various ways:
1. They do not like to sit with family and with people at all and always try to run away from the place where they hear screams coming from the walls.
2. Lack of concentration towards studies.
3. Lack of sleep.
4. They become victim of a pessimistic attitude.
5. They lose their competence and become emotional about everything.
6. They become addicted to social media and find it their best friend and just being attached to mobile phones deteriorates their health.
And all this makes them forget the real purpose of life. They forget to live a good and prosperous life. And alas, a living warm-blooded person dies without being struck by the sword.
This is an alarming call for families and all parents who are involved in various baseless issues and are spoiling their good relationships and leaving a negative impact on their children as well. There is no doubt that we cannot stop the growing problems at home but we can find a better solution to all problems with mutual understanding and cooperation without paying attention to what others say because this is your family and your life. You are not responsible for keeping people happy.
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Uzma Jaleel