Good company and good discourse are the very sinews of virtue: Izaak Walton

Let’s not go to the etymological realm of this term by checking out its word root. By definition, personality is the embodiment of all the qualities that reflect the external conduct of a person in his social environment. Personality does not only mean to have donned beautiful clothes but it also emphasizes the overall moral standard that one should have while interacting with others. This is an emblematic achievement when you decide to select some people in life who have idiosyncratic reflections and ideas who can transform your life in different walks and accordingly mark an indelible impression upon your personality. Selecting a few people for your company is an essential part of life. You should not hesitate to select people from whom you will learn various kinds of thoughts and experiences. They utter wise words which are smelted by you for gaining some insights and could be easily applied in your life to find out the efficacy. Surely! It will change your attitude and thinking which is a sign of wisdom. It is not mandatory that books will only show you the light in achieving what you have been yearning for. There are other spaces in life that could be filled only by the people whom you trust deeply. Engraving callow ideas for developing a true personality is the real testament. It is very important to find out those who will let you know the direction of life. A good company will serve you better to discover an illumination within yourself.
What matters is the role of the compatriots in your company which they show selflessly. Perceptions vary from person to person that naturally sounds good in the company. Compatriots always reveal their good experiences and factual stories to you so that it would bring a positive attitude in making the right decisions. Therefore, a hub of experiences and knowledge one can acquire from the company he/ she has selected purposefully. It is a fact that many of you have been taught by many great people whom we have been attached to since we met them. They play a significant role in your life by telling some experimental ideas that satisfy your inner thirst. Friends and teachers can be in our company whose individual roles you are familiar with and their shining understanding may lead you in the right direction. It is not downright that you learn everything in your own ways but sometimes you need to resort to taking perfect suggestions from your company compatriots for solving the matters.
It is de facto that the power of satisfaction in life comes naturally when we have a rapport with good people. Obviously, there are good members in your company who may have different success stories behind and some may have failures too. It is good to hear both because words of wisdom come from both sides that will make you understand the trials they have faced in their journeys of life. This is very strange talk to have more emphasis on reading books and other stuff that will groom your overall personality but it is not always true because a good company will make you a drink of yummy soup that a hundred books will not serve you at all. Life takes its second birth when we start learning things beyond the books. You can’t experience everything whatever you have got from books and decide things to get positive results. You need to learn experience from them who would direct you rightly to pursuing the path. In one way or the other, we learn many things from our true compatriots who teach us practical lessons which books have not taught. Some are very lucky to have a good company to track the impressions of success for making the true symbol of their personality.
The writer is a teacher and can be reached at [email protected]

Mudasir Ali