What Allah knows about us is more important than what people think about us. His perspective is the only one that truly matters.

Indeed humans are social creatures, and interactions with others is natural and essential part of our lives. While human interactions are inevitable and valuable and we live in a social media-dominated era, the opinions of others can easily become the benchmark of our self-worth. We often find ourselves striving to impress, seeking validation, and craving acceptance from those around us. But what if we could break free from this endless pursuit of human approval? What if we could find our true identity and worth in the eyes of Allah?
Human opinions are fleeting, changing like the wind. One moment we’re praised, the next we’re criticized. This constant fluctuation can leave us feeling like a leaf blown about by the whims of others. We begin to shape our lives according to the expectations of those around us, sacrificing our authenticity in the process. We wear masks to hide our true selves, fearing rejection or judgment. But this constant striving for human approval comes at a steep price: our mental and emotional well-being.
The consequences of seeking human validation
When we anchor our worth in human opinion, we become vulnerable to the ebbs and flows of others’ thoughts. We may experience anxiety, depression, and a perpetual sense of inadequacy. We may feel like we’re walking on eggshells, constantly seeking to appease others. But this fragile existence is not the life we were meant to live. Allah created us for a purpose far greater than human validation.
Allah’s gaze
But there is a gaze that sees beyond our masks, beyond our flaws, and beyond our fears. Allah’s gaze sees our true essence, our deepest longings, and our highest potential. It is a gaze that loves us unconditionally, accepts us fully, and sees us as we truly are. This gaze is not based on our achievements, our appearance, or our accomplishments. It is based on our inherent worth as beloved servants of Allah.
The freedom of Allah’s acceptance
When we anchor our worth in Allah’s love, we find freedom from the need for human validation. We no longer crave the approval of others to feel worthy. We no longer fear their rejection or criticism. We stand tall, knowing that our value is rooted in the unshakeable love of Allah. We can be our authentic selves, without apology or pretension.
The transformative power of Allah’s perspective
When we embrace Allah’s perspective, our lives are transformed. We no longer see ourselves through the distorted lens of human opinion. We see ourselves through the eyes of love, compassion, and acceptance. We begin to live a life that is authentic, free, and radiant with the love of Allah. We find joy in our true identity, rather than seeking it in the fleeting opinions of others.
Living a life of purpose
With our worth anchored in Allah’s love, we can live a life of purpose and meaning. We can pursue our passions, without fear of failure or rejection. We can build meaningful relationships, based on mutual respect and trust. We can find contentment in our true selves, rather than constantly seeking external validation.
Conclusion
We need meaningful connections and relationships to thrive emotionally, mentally, and spiritually. However, it’s important to strike a balance between seeking validation from others and finding self-worth in Allah’s love.
While human interactions are inevitable and valuable, our worth and identity should not be solely defined by them. We must cultivate a strong sense of self-worth rooted in Allah’s acceptance and love, which is unwavering and unconditional. This balance allows us to navigate social interactions with confidence, empathy, and authenticity, without compromising our true identity or seeking external validation to feel worthy.
By recognizing our inherent worth in Allah’s eyes, we can engage in meaningful relationships, build strong connections, and contribute to our communities without relying on human validation to define our self-worth. Let’s embrace our social nature while keeping our identity anchored in Allah’s love!
What Allah knows about us is more important than what people think about us. His perspective is the only one that truly matters. When we embrace this truth, we find liberation from the chains of human opinion. We find our true identity, our worth, and our purpose in the loving gaze of Allah. Let us anchor our hearts in this truth and live a life that is authentic, free, and radiant with the love of Allah.
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Shabeer Rather